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What children told us about their experiences

At the heart of every evaluation report, every policy document, and every partnership meeting sits a deceptively simple question: what is this like for the child?

Our evaluation work across North Strathclyde and the Sycamore Centre has involved speaking directly with children and young people about their experiences — before, during, and after engagement with Bairns’ Hoose services. What they told us has shaped our understanding of what this model can offer, and where the system still falls short.

What mattered most

Across the children and young people we spoke with, several themes emerged with striking consistency.

The first was the importance of relationships. Children valued professionals who were warm, consistent, and genuinely interested in them — not just in what had happened to them. They noticed when someone remembered what they’d said, when the same person showed up each time, and when they were spoken to rather than spoken about. In a system where children often encounter a revolving door of professionals, consistency was not a bonus — it was the foundation of trust.

The second was the physical environment. Children described a clear difference between the Bairns’ Hoose and other spaces they’d been required to attend. The institutional, intimidating nature of police stations, court buildings, and clinical settings was a recurring theme in Phase 1 interviews. By contrast, children in Phase 2 described the Bairns’ Hoose as a place that felt safe and calm — somewhere designed for them rather than around them.

The third was a desire for information and control. Children wanted to understand what was happening and what would happen next. Many described feeling confused by the processes they were involved in, unsure who was making decisions and on what basis. When professionals took the time to explain — and genuinely invited questions — children reported feeling more able to cope.

The harder stories

Not everything children told us was positive. Some described aspects of the justice process that remained distressing even with Bairns’ Hoose support. Delays and adjournments to court proceedings were a consistent source of anxiety. For children waiting months or years for a case to reach trial, the uncertainty itself becomes a form of harm. The Bairns’ Hoose can provide support during that wait, but it cannot fix the pace of the justice system.

Children also told us about moments where communication broke down — where they weren’t told what was happening, or where decisions were made without their input. These moments matter, not because they represent systemic failure, but because they show how easily the good intentions of a child-centred model can be undermined by the practical pressures of multi-agency working.

Composite case studies

In our Sycamore evaluation, we developed composite case studies drawn from the experiences of children and families, presented as reflective tools for practitioners. These stories — constructed from real data but anonymised and combined to protect identities — are designed to put the child’s journey at the centre of professional reflection. They trace what it feels like to move through a system: the fear of the initial disclosure, the uncertainty of the interview process, the relief of finding someone who listens.

These case studies are not reports. They’re an invitation to see the system through a child’s eyes.